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The fetish of cuckolding and the inclusion of a third person in the role-playing is based primarily on power dynamics, consensual humiliation, or shared pleasure.
Here I explain the most common scenarios and how they are usually structured:
1. The "Stranger" Scenario (Hotwife / Cuckold)
It's the most classic format. The couple invites a third person (called "Bull" if male) to have an encounter with one of them while the other watches.
The dynamic: The "cuckold" usually adopts a passive or subservient role. He may be tied up, sitting in a corner, or even in charge of cleaning or attending to others.
The approach: The pleasure comes from watching the partner be "taken" by someone who is perceived as more dominant, strong, or gifted.
2. The Scenario of Feigned Infidelity
In this role, you act as if the third person were a secret lover and the "cuckold" discovers them "by surprise".
The dynamic: It plays on the adrenaline of risk. The cuckold can "beg" to participate or simply be forced to watch as punishment for having discovered them.
The focus: The transgression of social norms and the morbid fascination with the forbidden.
3. The "Training" or Humiliation Scenario
Here the approach is more psychological. The third person takes complete control of the situation and the cuckold.
The dynamic: The third person can give orders to the cuckold, such as "you can't touch yourself" or "you have to praise what I'm doing with your partner." The cuckold's inferiority to the third person is emphasized.
The approach: The total surrender of control and the satisfaction of seeing the couple fully enjoy themselves with someone else under the direction of a stranger.
4. The Guest of Honor Stage (Cuckquean)
It's the reverse version, where a woman watches her partner be with another woman.
The dynamic: The woman can act as a "stage director", choosing which positions to use or simply enjoying her partner's vulnerability in front of another woman.
The focus: Personal safety and the visual pleasure of seeing the couple's sexual potency from the outside.
Key elements for it to work:
Consent and Limits: Before starting, the "golden rules" must be defined. Is physical contact with the observer allowed? Are there safe words?
Prior communication: Decide if the role is purely one of humiliation (consensual insults) or if it is one of admiration (enjoying the pleasure of the other).
The "Aftercare": After a role-playing activity of this type, it is vital that the primary couple reconnect and validate that it was all a game to strengthen their bond.
Can a bull be of different sexual orientations?
Yes, a bull can have different sexual orientations. Although in the more traditional cuckolding scenario the bull is usually a heterosexual man who focuses solely on the woman, the dynamic can be completely adapted to the desires of the participants.
Depending on the bull's orientation and what the couple is looking for, the scenario changes:
Heterosexual Bull: This is the most common role in the classic male character. His interest is strictly with the woman (or the "Hotwife"). He ignores the husband or uses him as a passive spectator.
Bisexual Bull: This is a popular variant in open communities. In this case, the bull can interact sexually with both partners. This allows the "cuckold" to go from being a mere spectator to having an active role with the bull, which is sometimes called bi-cuckolding .
"Bull-Queer ": In LGBTQ+ slang, this refers to a man (usually robust or dominant) who takes an exclusively active ( top ) role in male encounters. In a gay role-play scenario, this bull might be the one who "takes" someone else's partner in front of him.
How does this affect roleplaying?
The bull's orientation defines the level of interaction:
Strict Cuckolding: If the bull is heterosexual and the husband is also heterosexual, there is no contact between men. The thrill is purely visual or based on humiliation.
"Versatile" Cuckolding : If the bull is bisexual, there can be "sharing" games with the woman or direct interactions between the three, breaking the barrier of mere observation.
Bi Humiliation: Sometimes, part of the "punishment" or role for the cuckold is to be forced to perform acts with the bull, even if that is not their main orientation, always within the framework of the consensual game.
In short, the orientation of the third person is a piece that is chosen according to the specific fantasy they want to experience.
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